Perimenopause vs. "Just Stress"—How to Tell the Difference

You're feeling more anxious than usual.

Your sleep is a mess. Your periods are unpredictable. Is it just stress, or are you entering perimenopause?
Many women in their late 30s and 40s don’t realize that perimenopause symptoms can start long before their periods stop. Since both chronic stress and perimenopause involve hormonal fluctuations, it’s easy to confuse them.

Here’s how to tell the difference:

Symptom

Likely Stress

Likely Perimenopause

Mood swings

Short-term, triggered by specific events

Unpredictable, often worse before your period

Sleep issues

Racing thoughts, trouble falling asleep

Waking up at 3 AM for no reason, night sweats

Period changes

No major impact

Irregular cycles (shorter, longer, heavier, lighter)

Hot flashes

Uncommon

Sudden warmth, especially at night

Weight gain

Stress eating, especially carbs

Weight gain around the midsection despite no major diet change

Fatigue

Feels better after rest

Persistent, even with good sleep

Brain fog

Usually linked to lack of focus

Forgetfulness, word-finding difficulty

Your Questions, Answered Instantly
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1. "How do I know if I’m in perimenopause?"
Perimenopause is diagnosed based on symptoms rather than a single test. If your periods have become irregular (shorter, longer, heavier, lighter) and you’re experiencing new symptoms like night sweats, mood swings, or sleep disturbances, you’re likely in perimenopause.

2. "My anxiety is through the roof. Is it perimenopause or just stress?"
If your anxiety seems random, comes in waves, or worsens before your period, it could be linked to fluctuating estrogen and progesterone levels. Unlike stress-induced anxiety, which usually has a clear trigger, perimenopausal anxiety can feel unpredictable.

3. "I’m 38—too young for perimenopause, right?"
Not necessarily! Some women start perimenopause in their late 30s, while others don’t notice symptoms until their late 40s. The key is tracking your cycle changes and symptoms over time.
4. "What can I do to feel better?"
Regardless of whether it’s stress or perimenopause, hormonal balance is key. Here are some quick ways to improve symptoms:
  • For anxiety & mood swings → Magnesium and vitamin B6 help stabilize hormones.
  • For night sweats & poor sleep → Reduce caffeine/alcohol and try herbal supplements like ashwagandha or black cohosh.
  • For irregular periods → Track your cycle and symptoms daily—our Telegram bot can help!
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